Hope you guys can help me. I am looking for palms to go by my swimming pool in CA zone 9. I want something like a windmill palm. One will be planted in the ground and one in a large pot. I don't want the ones that get 50 feet tall but tall enough that the kids won't run into them. I really don't know anything about palms so any advice would really help me. I want the tropical look around the pool.