For lack of a better forum to put this in...it's here...under the "fashion" part. I've noticed wedding dresses for sale on Craig's List (online ads) and it's funny to me when people say, "only worn once." Well I would think so? But wondered if some would think it bad luck to wear someone else's dress. So it got me thinking how I couldn't bear part with mine...but then again...it is only taking up space. So what have you done with your dress????
I in no way intend to "save it for my daughter" as I am sure styles will be much different by then. But it was always the intent my Mom had for me, though when it came down to it she was fine with me having my own dress, realizing herself that after decades of sitting in the closet it was no longer in good condition.
I have mine in a preservation box that is very nice but still...
I've always thought that the 'only worn once' lines were a little funny too.
I wore my mom's wedding dress and it's now hanging in one of our closets. I was the only one of the four girls who wanted to wear it (or fit in it). I plan on keeping it - just in case one of my daughters (or neices) wants to wear it. I don't think I could bear to cut it up since it was my mom's, and it is a really nice dress. My mom had good taste. I guess I should probably do something to keep it well preserved though.
One of my friend's had a really good idea for hers. She had it made into a baptism dress that each of her daughters wore when they were baptised. They each received an handkerchief made from the material as a personal keepsake. She also had something made for each of her sons but I can't remember what, perhaps an handkerchief or a tie.
When my grandmother passed away, my Mom took all of her old dresses and made my brother and I a quilt out of them. I am wondering if this idea would work with wedding dresses? Incorporate the material into a quilt...either full size or a tiny one for new babies???
It was a long time ago now, but I actually sold my dress to a friend of mine who had attended my wedding and fell in love with it. It was kinda neat to watch it coming down the Isle...again... on my friend. Ü
Mine is preserved in a case.Of course that was from husband #1...Anybody interested in an ivory chantilly lace bridal gown????Second time got married on the beach...Still use the capri pants and bustier...Size 3 wedding gown,going for sale...
I had a friend offer me hers but once she got it out and looked at it she said I needed my own special dress. She ended up offering to help make one (pricing it made it more expensive than buying commercially made though) and then she helped me alter it to be more modest for my taste.
When I took my dress in to the thrift store here the staff were very pleased... there's a lot of demand. It would be sad for someone to be denied their wedding dream just because of economics. I must admit tho', if I'd thought of the Christening shawl idea before giving the dress away, might've had second thoughts. But the dress was gone from the thrift store within an hour of its being put on the rack so hopefully someone used it to make their wedding a wee bit more special!
I can't describe my wedding dress as "worn only once" because it was worn 3 times. Several years after I was married my cousin wore the dress and then several years after that my sister wore it. Unfortunately it suffered a red wine accident and we didn't anticipate another bride so when my own daughter married we cut from the skirt and made a beautiful purse for her to carry. We did the same for my cousin's daughter and each time tucked a picture of mom in "the dress". We've also made ring bearer pillows for the boys, tissue holders to attach to bouquets and christening caps and baby quilts for the grandkids. The dress has been well loved and we each now have a book called "the dress" with pictures of each bride and the other treasure the dress became. The bodice is now preserved in a shadow box. Good luck with your dress.
I would have worn my mother's wedding dress if she'd still had it when I married. I love that tradition (but would have it re-worked if the styling was just plain *off*, lol).
Mine is in a storage bag in my closet. LOL, and I don't even have children, nor do I intend to. I'm just too sentimental to get rid of something like that. I could never sell it. I would consider making napkins or something useful out of it though, I suppose ...
It will probably hang in my closet for a few years until I can cope with the fact that I will never get to wear it again! lol I'm not quite a pack rat, but I have a habit of saving clothing and items that I love just to look at them every once in a while - even if I will never use them again.
But after that, I plan to make it into some family heirlooms. I am for sure going to make a quilt, either just using the dress, or slowly creating it through the years from pieces of my wedding dress, and maternity clothing and baby clothes when I have children.
My mother saved her wedding dress too. However, she didn't save it with the intention of me wearing it at my own wedding. She saved it for me to wear for playing dress up, and for Halloween. http://www.nexteve.com/