(Hey_Jude) Jude E. Lee

Payneville, KY(Zone 7a)

Another flower blooms in the Memory Garden.

Jude E. Lee, known on DG as Hey_Jude, passed away on April 4, 2008. Jude lived in Scottsdale, AZ, formerly of Highland Park and Glencoe. She was born on December 31, 1945 Jude became a DG member on October 2, 2006 and frequented the Southwest Gardening, Morning Glories, and Ornamental Gourds forums.

She worked most recently in the home healthcare field and previously in the industrial supply business. Her passions were knit and crochet work. She also enjoyed designing and making fashion accessories for herself and others.

She is survived by her sons, Jamie, Joey and Jono; one granddaughter; her brother, David (Susan); her sister, Deb (Keith) Metler; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, Herbert and Naomi Lee; and her brother, Jonathan Lee.

Contributions may be made to the Gilda Radner Familial Ovarian Cancer Registry or the American Cancer Society.
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She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in March 07, and she only lived a year following the diagnosis.
She sent our DGer, Sharran, all the seeds she had received from swaps and last summer Sharran planted them in her garden for her. Sharran sent her photos all summer long. She loved Cottage Gardens, and tried so hard to have that same look in Arizona.
Her three sons obviously didn't know about her passion for gardening.

Sharran also has many ponchos, shawls, belts, purses and hats that she crocheted for her, she was excellent with yarn.

Her granddaughter Tricia is 6, and she doted on her.

I didn't know Jude, but I know that she will be sadly missed here on DG and at home. Prayers to her family and friends for the loss of a dear sweet person.

Blessings,
Kathy

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Jude,
No more pain, my dear, and you will remain forever in my heart.
Always, with love,
Sharon

Victoria Harbour, ON

Tried to be profound, but sometimes there are no words...
Sorry for your loss Sharran and am sending prayers for both you and her family..



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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

I too have no words, only an ache in my heart for those she left behind. What a beautiful woman - you can see the love in her.

Phoenix, AZ

Kathy, thank you for posting this. I know most of us on the SW Forum didn't know Jude and didn't know she was so ill. I'm sorry for that; we are a great support group for each other in times of trouble and illness.

Sharran, you are the epitome of a friend. I'm glad you were there for her.

Alma

Tolleson, AZ(Zone 9a)

Sharran thak you for being there for her. It sounds like we missed out on an awesome person!!

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

She was the most wonderful friend. In February we picked out favorite roses, and I bought most of them. I planted them in late March and they are blooming now. When I see a new bloom, it brings a smile.

And I still am sowing seeds from those that we planted last year, I say "we" but of course it was all long distance.

My life is much richer for having known her, and I appreciate/enjoy sharing our friendship with you.

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Crossville, TN

She will be missed here on DG...but she will be with my good friend, DJM906 in the Heavenly Gardens. Jo

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

More roses, dear friend. To many to count, and the climbers are reaching for the sky, just like you said they would.
I do miss you, Jude.

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

And another..

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

Sharon, what a lovely, lovely tribute.

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Carole, we are happy to share them with you and Steve.

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

I consider that an honor, Sharon - thank you!!!!!

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Jude's favorite daylily, just blooming today....

One time she found a baby crib, took it apart and painted it white. She used it like a fence for a flower garden, and she wanted me to send her some KY bluegrass seed to go with the "fence"...so it would look like the Ky horse farms.

So many memories.

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

Sounds like really good memories, Sharon - thank you for sharing them . . . warms our hearts.

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Last year Jude sent her first seeds to me, among them was this hollyhock. I got them in the ground too late to bloom then, but now, here is the first set of blooms a year later.
For you, my friend, with love...

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

It's exquisite - what a heartwarming gift from your friend, Sharon, and now one you can share with so many.

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Another favorite blooming.....

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Ijamsville, MD(Zone 6b)

Oh my, that is a beauty! I love the ruffled edges. What wonderful memories you will have every year with all the blooms Jude shared.

Hugs - Kim

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Thanks, Kim.
Hugs back to you.

Naples, FL(Zone 10a)

What a beautiful woman Jude was. I love her picture with her granddaughter. May she be in peace.

Hugs and love to her family and to you too Sharon.
Harper

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

For you from my garden, Jude.
Miss you, my friend.

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Jude said: "Sharon, I want to see morning glories. Do you think seeds will grow here? I really want to see morning glories."

"It would be pretty hard to get them to grow in AZ, Jude....but you could try."

So she planted one seed, then sent me the rest, with instructions to send her pictures.

Here are the pictures, Jude.....with your little one included.
You are so missed.

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

And more blooms from the seeds we shared...

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

Such lovely memories, Sharon - I know you ache for your dear friend.

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

We spent so many birthdays together, and here it is mine, the first without you. I'll miss our calls and all the cards and the See's Chocolate and the laughs. Seems our birthdays were never ending. So today I will dress up in the poncho from last year, and the burgandy felted wool purse from the year before and the burgandy scarf from the year before and I will remember you and all the joys and laughs we shared. I will wear all the bracelets, and the jeans we passed back and forth, and the boots that didn't fit you. And I will celebrate.
I miss you, Jude.

Crossville, TN

Sharran....I met her once at a RU in Phoenix...what a nice person! Jo

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Jo, I wish we had talked about that when you and I were talking. thank you!

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

My sky was painted with fire from the sun tonight. Jude would have loved it.

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

Glorious picture, Sharon. Jude might even be seeing it in more glorious beauty from her vantage point!

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Thanks Carole, I was thinking the same thing, and wondering if she sent it to me...she did love KY sunsets.

Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

The lovely thought of Jude sending you the sunset gave me delightful goose bumps, Sharon - perfect thought!

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Happy Birthday, Jude.
I miss you, my friend.

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

Ice storms and windstorms, but your hollyhocks are coming up again!
Miss you, Jude.

Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

I picture Jude's lovely spirit enjoying how you think of her, Sharon.

Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

And I thought of her when the bluebirds returned today.....
She did love bluebirds, though she never saw them in Arizona.

Thank you, Carole.

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Calvert City, KY(Zone 7a)

It's been a year now, hard to believe.
Since I have no place to leave flowers for my best friend, I will bring them here, and thank DG for providing a memory garden for us.

My first tulip of the year....blooming on the anniversary of Jude's death.

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Whidbey Island, WA(Zone 7a)

How perfect that is, Sharon. My heart aches for you - I have several dear friends that if I lost them, it would devastate me.

Mackinaw, IL(Zone 5a)

Oh, Sharon, I was in tears reading your lovely tribute to Jude. Sounds like she was truly one of a kind, and so much more than just a friend. Funny, I have no fear of dying. . .just of being left behind to grieve. You've had your share of grief, I think. And your ability to be gracious and kind and funny through your tears is. . .I'm just at a loss for words.

Thank you for sharing her with me this way. I'm honored, and very moved.


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