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Joan
Belfield, ND
(Zone 4a)



November 21, 2008
6:09 PM

Post #5816339

Ned Hudson, known throughout DG as Nedhudson1, passed away November 20, 2008.

Ned lived in Thorne Bay AK, and joined Dave's Garden on May 19, 2006. He was very active in the daily coffee threads in the Parking Lot forum.

Ned will be missed by many of his Dave's Garden friends.

The photo below is of Ned with his good friend Ernie (eweed) Ned is on the right.

(This post will be updated when more information becomes available)

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Maria
Rehoboth, MA
(Zone 5a)

November 21, 2008
8:50 PM

Post #5816833

Ned's courage from suffering this terrible illness was more then most of us could follow through with such humor and wonderful spirit. We will miss him but he finally is free from his pains that now will give him peace forever .

I missed meeting Ned last summer since I spent a few weeks with Ernie and Linda right after Ned was there too, now I am very sad I lost that chance.

Maria

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darius

darius
So.App.Mtns.
United States
(Zone 5b)

November 22, 2008
12:11 AM

Post #5817434

Ned never complained. That in itself takes the courage of a fine man like Ned. He will be missed.
Procrastinator
Havelock
Canada

November 22, 2008
12:48 AM

Post #5817542

Ned was such a wonderful addition to Parking Lot. Always scrambling to get a seat in the morning and never anything but a kind word for all. His passing has left such a hole in our DG family but everyday he was with us was a blessing. His sense of humour, his kindness, compassion and his vast knowledge will always be remembered when I think of our sweet Ned. I always imagined him with a twinkle in his eye.

Although he must have been in unbearable pain, he never complained and was always there to lend an ear to all of us. In time, I hope that I can remember him and smile but his passing, even though it was expected, is so devastating. Their was nothing "cyber" about the friendships he so easily made. I miss him but take solace that he is not suffering anymore. Ned - We loved you and you will always hold a very special place in my heart.

Elaine and Otis
hope43
Tulsa, OK
(Zone 7a)

November 22, 2008
2:06 AM

Post #5817814

Very sorry. prayers for all his family and friends.
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
3:45 AM

Post #5818158

Ned and I went to the same high school in the Pacific Northwest in Washington. He graduated in 1960 from Meridian High School at a little bump in the road called Laurel, Half way between Bellingham and Lynden At that time Laurel consisted of 2 cafes,one tractor shop,one barber shop, and one little grocery store with gas pumps. Today it is much the same except the barber shop is gone.

Ned loved Mt Baker and he loved to ski and he was quite accomplished at it allways pushing himself.He did a lot of this with his family and one of my friends of today.

After Ned left school I lost track of him because as soon as I graduated I joinded the Navy and then worked for a couple of years in Seattle. Ned began timber crusing some place in Washington. Timber crusing was what took him to Southeast Alaska and at last to Prince of Wales Island and Thorne Bay.

Ned found me on the coffee and thread and asked about me and my reply to him was not only did I know him but told him where he lived and thats where we took up after almost 50 years.

When Ned came down this summer we spent some lazy days in my yard where we grew to know each other again. Darned if we didnt share a love at poking fun especially at George W. Though it was obvious he didn't feel 100% he did not complain and was stoic about his sickness.He showed me what true grit is and not once did he ever say why me. In Fact it was hard to believe most of the time he was as sick as he was.

Ned had a great sometimes subtle sense of humor. He had a twinkle in his eye that suggested he was like a cartoon character who had just dispached Barney the dragon and as his body leaned foreward just a bit those twinkling eyes said go ahead sucker open up again or maybe how did you like that jack lol. Like a bulldog saying go ahead bite me lol.

How pleased I was to host a group of his old friends and watch him enjoy himself with them.We did this twice and the second time one of his friends who was a timber cruiser in his earlier days and continues in forestry showed up and they jawed brightly for a long time.When the last one left he just slumped into a chair like a spent dishrag and said damed if I was going to let them see how weak I have gotten.That was Ned he refused to let people know he had a problem.His theory was they have enough problems of their own they don't need to share his.

Ned got to enjoy the logging show we went to but his real treat was our trip up the mountian.We spent most of the morning going up stopping at the falls and making jokes about past and present politicans.We intended to go up the mountin and get past the ski area but after Neds operation he was in a hurry to get home. Next summer when they get the road open to Artist I will go back and who knows maybe Ned will go with me with a twinkle in his eye.




eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
3:50 AM

Post #5818172

we spent a quiet hour here on the way

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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
4:00 AM

Post #5818195

Near the top

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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
4:01 AM

Post #5818200

Another near the top

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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
4:06 AM

Post #5818206

The ski area in July

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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
4:18 AM

Post #5818230

It was a privledge to know you my friend I enjoyed our summer. I would have loved to hooked you up to a bright fish fresh home from the sea on the end of my four ounce Fenwick and had you tell me oh fishing is not so hot. Perhaps

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defoecat
Pleasureville, KY
(Zone 6a)

November 22, 2008
4:32 AM

Post #5818248

I was reluctant to post here, but just wanted to add my memories to those already posted. I don't really remember the year, the month or the day that Ned found us on the Parking Lot forum, and the Coffee...and thread, that is not important. What is important is that he had had a disappointment on another web site, and was looking for comradrie, and people who loved to garden. Well, he found us, and as they say, it is all history now.

I enjoyed Ned's sense of humor, along with, and prodded on sometimes by Ernie. They played leacherous old men with us gals, which made us giggle, and his enthusiasiam for growing the calendulas in his garden. I think he may have shared seeds with some.

I remember the pride that he took in showing us the quilt that his friends from the former chat site made him. He posted a picture for all of us to see, and I knew then that if a group of people cared enough about him to do that, that indeed he was a fine person.

He didn't complain, he just stated the facts. After his last surgery, I think he had hopes that his health would be better, but alas, that wasn't in the grand scheme of things.

I never had the pleasure of meeting Ned in person, but I am sure that we would have had much in common to share.

I will remember him with a gleam in his eye, sliding into the first chair when the new daily Coffee...and thread was posted, tempting us females with candy and cookies, calling us little girls, so that we would sit next to him. I had the pleasure many late nights of doing just that. Since we have a rule, no saving seats, I think Ned and I tried harder than anybody there to be first and second respectively.

I think Ned had regrets about his early life, and tried extra hard to compensate for those years. Since I didn't know him then, it didn't bother me what his past may have been, only what he was able to share with his friends that he found.

I picture him now in the presence of Our Lord, and being given an escorted tour of heaven. I am sure that as humble as he was, he will choose a modest dwelling, with cats sitting in the windows, a fine fire built in the fireplace, a computer, and a connection that will never fail, so that he can still communicate with those he left behind.

Good Speed to you Ned, you enriched my life by becoming a part of it. I learned much from you, and will never forget it. Thanks my friend, for being such an example to all of of us.
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 22, 2008
4:35 AM

Post #5818252

Hello All,

I’m one of Ned’s long time buddy-ettes from WA. I think I (WE – NHGC-MC-BC friends) have been chatting daily with Ned for about 6 years. We’d start our mornings with the usual weather reports (from North-East-South and West), trying to claim braggarts rights on who had the best/worst/wettest/driest/hottest/coldest temperatures of the morning. Ned drew his boundaries with us early on and we rapidly learned that Folgers was the only coffee he considered edible and he liked his email jokes just a weeeee bit naughty...lol .

He was such a stand up guy! Wickedly funny, not too concerned about being PC (lol) smart...kind hearted and a man who didn’t care for a lot of pomp and circumstance. His knowledge of all things great and small was vast, and I always suspected that Al Borland (from Tool Time) was his wardrobe consultant.

A couple years ago Ned (aka Nedster – Nedward - Mintman) met a handful of us at the Gig Harbor, WA garden tour. We had such a grand time, and Ned deserved a medal (possibly a Purple Heart) for putting up with a group of middle aged, hormonally deprived menopausal women for 36 hours. Worse yet...he was the DD (designated driver) so he had 5 back seat drivers the entire time. He was a blue ribbon “good sport” and the day was rich with laughs, bad driving, good food and lots of rain. During that trip Ned was continually beaming as he shared the excitement of reuniting with his family and grandchildren prior to catching up with us. Life is not always perfect, but it appeared that it was a wonderful event that had touched him very deeply. It was indeed a trip I will cherish forever!

I’m also part of the group that constructed “Ned’s Signature Quilt”. One day a kind hearted compliment from Ned (about a quilt photo posted in our thread)...prompted an idea... that prompted some whispering...that prompted some emails...that prompted some ideas...that prompted some efforts...that prompted some donations...that alllllll eventually produced a fine quilt to enfold him in our love and well wishes while he rested and battled his health problems. I work in a cancer center and I see miracles happen every day. It totally broke my heart that a miracle wasn’t in store for Ned, but the more I think about it... we had lived the “miracle” as a group of total strangers that began to chat years ago...drinking our morning coffee and learning all about each other’s lives, and worlds while sitting at a keyboard. Who woulda “thunk” it.

There are no words to really express how much I’ll miss Ned and his insightful posts. I feel a huge sense of “loss” when I boot up my computer every morning looking for him in the morning banter. He was a grand green thumber, and an even a BETTER friend! Whewwwwwwwwwww... God’s speed my sweet friend... it was an honor to be part of your world.

With Sincere Love,

Felicia

Photo - Left to right:
Felicia (Dirt Ball), Ned, Kim(Booner) Cinda
Front - Dori (Doriwithani)



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Maria
Rehoboth, MA
(Zone 5a)

November 22, 2008
12:16 PM

Post #5818635

Felicia, thank you for this wonderful photo with Ned looking still very healthy. You are very fortunate to have known him in person.
Maria
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 22, 2008
1:15 PM

Post #5818739

Ha while he never bragged about it I allways expected he was a chaser now I am convinced of it.

Neddie great picture you look so good.

Carol posted this on the coffee thread I am taking the liberty to copy and post it here.

okus
New York(UK!)Lincoln
(United Kingdom)
(Zone 8b)

November 22, 2008
2:18 AM

Post #5818537

Morning All,

I found this after much searching I think Ned would approve so I'm posting it here for you all to share.

Remember me when I am gone away,
Gone far away into the silent land;
When you can no more hold me by the hand,
Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
Remember me when no more day by day
You tell me of our future that you plann'd:
Only remember me; you understand
It will be late to counsel then or pray.
Yet if you should forget me for a while
And afterwards remember, do not grieve:
For if the darkness and corruption leave
A vestige of the thoughts that once I had,
Better by far you should forget and smile
Than that you should remember and be sad.

Christina Rossetti

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Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 22, 2008
2:09 PM

Post #5818896

Now Now..Ernie...
Nedward was not a chaser...lol...but..I could see how his charismatic “boyish charm” could certainly be a babe magnet...lol I'm sure he had been chased more then a few times over the years. The first 15 min we were all together (in Gig Harbor) he had that "uhoh...what did I get myself into" look on his face...but in no time he was bantering away...and just one of the "goils"...lol We teased him about being our “token male” on the trip.

Maria..
I assure you...if you chatted with Ned ONCE...you knew him. We only hung out for a Saturday and part of a Sunday (for breakfast). But...the Ned we all knew online...was the real Ned. He was as real in chat as he was in person. Nothing pretentious about him...he was just all heart...and Alaska suspenders.

I really can't believe he's gone... that was wayyyy too fast...and he was way too young. *sigh*
okus

(Zone 8b)

November 22, 2008
2:21 PM

Post #5818945

I had only "known" Ned for just over a year, but in him I found a real friend. He didn't always have a lot to say but what he did say was always to the point and relevant and he had a wicked sense of humour.

He and Ernie competing over the best seats next to their favourite girls in Coffee was a cheerful way to start every morning and for that alone he will be sorely missed. I am glad he did not have to suffer the indignity of losing his independance and that the end was mercifully swift, but very sad to have lost a friend so recently found.

Sleep in Peace Ned.

Carol

Sashagirl
Davenport, IA
(Zone 5a)

November 22, 2008
3:08 PM

Post #5819106

I am so thrilled to see such great memories of Ned posted here!!

It eases my heart somehow-in our time of coming to grips with his passing.

Felicia, thank you so much for sharing your experiences with Ned, especially that wonderfully robust picture of him, with you and your other friends. What a delightful group, with happiness so evident on all your faces.

I never got to meet Ned "in person", but had the privilege of his cyber friendship, and it doesn't surprise me one bit to know that the Ned that we "saw" daily on "Coffee and..." was just as he was "in the flesh"!

I think we are all a little richer for having crossed paths in this life and God willing, I hope we all will do that in the next one.

Ned, we are sad now, but time will help turn our memories to joy.

Deanna
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 22, 2008
3:37 PM

Post #5819194

Hmmmmmm... now...what I see shaping up in here...and WHAT I’d like to know is ...HOW THE HECK did Ned keep up with this many “morning coffee” threads??...lololol

NED!!...Git yer scrawny buns BACK HERE and e’splain dat to Lucy (and friends) would you???

Early on...Ned typed about 4 words a minute...but then he got better...up to about 15 wpm I think (by his own words we made him DIZZY the first time we actually conned him into going into a live chat board with us). The rapidly scrolling text was just toooo much for him...lol Now.. I’m getting the drift that he was talking to 2-3 boards at once...so maybe he had his toes up there too...lol It would be fun to know just exactly HOW MANY people Ned chatted with every morning...lol This really has me chuckling.

Here's the only other picture I have of Ned. I had razzed him about this one (also taken at the garden tour). I told him it was his "WHAT ME WORRY?" look. He was looking very closely at some needles on a tree trying to ID it (no doubt by genus and species).



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ViolaAnn

ViolaAnn
Ottawa, ON
(Zone 5a)

November 22, 2008
7:02 PM

Post #5819809

Oh my! I didn't feel right posting over here until Ernie had done so. And now I've got tears streaming down my cheeks.

Like Bonnie, I don't remember exactly when Ned joined Coffee but he stayed and was a regular and he will be greatly missed. Like so many of the rest of you, I never had a chance to meet him in person. Was hoping to do that one day on a western trip (I've got a daughter in Vancouver and a sister in Alaska; so it wouldn't have been out of the question). Alas, it is not to be.

Ned had told us that his condition would be fatal, but I think we were all taken aback somewhat with how quickly it progressed. I do know that while he tried not to complain, he was in severe pain. Now that pain has eased. Ned, my friend, may you rest in peace.

Ann
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

November 22, 2008
7:21 PM

Post #5819851

Ned was a fantastic friend and I thoroughly enjoyed every conversation I had with him. He was unpretentious, courageous, strong, and just an all around "good guy".

I loved his passion for learning about new things. He loved the library and looking things up in books and online. I could always count on him to provide some input to questions or issues that anyone was looking for an answer for.

I loved how Ned was always there with encouraging words and I also loved how he spoke his mind. There was nothing "false" about Ned and one always knew where they stood with him.

I was never fortunate enough to meet Ned in person, but I did have some wonderful conversations with him online. That his passing is so painful is a testament to the kind of person he was! His absence in our lives is starkly noted.

God Speed, Ned. Love and hugs,
Linda
a.k.a. Agent99
a.k.a. LAKelley2
dmcdevitt
Schroon Lake, NY
(Zone 4a)

November 22, 2008
7:49 PM

Post #5819932

I wonder how many millions of people have just faded away from life. And then there was Ned.

What an amazing thing that he was winning friends and charming babes all over the world, right to his last days. You have to smile about that.

AS highmtn said above, who woulda thunk? And who woulda thunk we would have had the chance to get to know him and enjoy his company, far away as he is from most of us? That is a wonderful thing.

My condolences to all of you, his friends.

meezersfive

meezersfive
waukesha, WI
(Zone 5a)

November 23, 2008
1:17 AM

Post #5820891

How wonderful to see photos of Ned when he had some girth, and looked healthy. He sure was stoic about his terrible illness. I felt bad sometimes talking about food on our Coffee thread, knowing he had no way to enjoy it. And he loved his coffee. He joined us early in '08, but it seemed like we knew him for a long time...we enjoyed his sense of humor, and were glad he felt right at home with us. I was also glad he was able to take a couple of "road trips" with our Ernie, which he so enjoyed. Sayonara, Ned, we're glad to have known you.
IO1
Waaaay Down South, GA

November 23, 2008
5:20 AM

Post #5821642

Ned had a wonderful sense of humor and will be greatly missed around our coffee table. He was a real trooper, and never complained. It was different for me, though. I had a very uneasy feeling about him and had talked to my DH about him during the past couple of weeks. I'm glad he's no longer in pain and is able to have a cup of coffee now. Ernie, you've been especially in my prayers lately. I'm glad you had the opportunity to renew your friendship with him.

To all those who have shared from other sites ... thanks so much. It's easy to see him blessed with so many friends. He had a kind heart.

To his family, prayers of comfort go out to you.

Hugs&blessings ... ~Susan
dmcdevitt
Schroon Lake, NY
(Zone 4a)

November 23, 2008
2:11 PM

Post #5822161

Here's to you all (raising my mug of Folger's)!!

ves522

ves522
Jim Falls, WI
(Zone 4a)

November 23, 2008
2:15 PM

Post #5822169

So enjoyed knowing Ned. As Meezer said elsewhere I didn't know I would be affected like this. I would of loved to of met Ned as in some ways he reminded me of my dad. His willingness to help. Look for answers. The way he lived.

Ned sent me some mint plants. Where I have planted them I can look out my kitchen window and see where they are and think of Ned and know he is happy and healthy and drinking his coffee!

Vicki
sarv48
south of Grand Rapid, MI
(Zone 5a)

November 23, 2008
2:29 PM

Post #5822207

Ned was a once in a lifetime kinda guy..as were his quiet humor and stoic statements about his health. We all knew he was hurting, but never did I guess how much pain he was in. He seldom talked about it, but we all knew it was his bedfellow. I was shocked that he passed so soon - thinking he would be with us for years...fighting his demon illness.

I only saw one picture of Ned and that was the one with Ernie...he looked frail in that one. I really got a kick out of seeing the others in which he was so healthy looking...but the twinkle in his eye remained no matter what size he was.

Glad that Ned's journey is complete ... I see him with a big cuppa Folgers in his hand...bidding us good morning...

Joyous
Himrod, NY
(Zone 6a)

November 23, 2008
7:28 PM

Post #5823050

Not many words to say. But my life is richer from the fellowship we had with Ned at "Coffee and...".

Ned, you were one of a kind and I am so glad to have know you.
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 23, 2008
7:54 PM

Post #5823122

Neds good friend Janna who cared for him right to the end. Janna and her hubby were very good to Ned as he was to them.She is standing next to him.A special thanks to you Janna even though you cant see this.

Connie is the other friend who cared for his kitties while he was gone.

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MaryE
Baker City, OR
(Zone 5b)

November 24, 2008
12:25 AM

Post #5824005

I remember how happy I was to see somebody posting on Coffee and... from Thorne Bay, Alaska, because I had been there when it was a big logging camp about 1980-81. We lived near Ketchikan, maybe 40 miles as the crow (raven or eagle) flies from Ned, but he settled in Thorne Bay after we left Alaska. He and I had several conversations about the stormy weather, fishing, water systems, travel by floatplane, and other oddities of everyday life in SE Alaska. It was nice to chat with somebody who knew what I was saying and to be brought up to date with changes on Prince of Wales Island. Goodness! roads now connect towns that used to be logging camps and were only reached by air or boat. Phones instead of radio contact, a Doctor on the Island, and all the rest.

His time with us was much too short. I'm sure we all expected him to be with us a while longer, but I guess it was true to his nature to hide his true condition from us to keep us from worrying. When his posts became confused last week, I thought it was just his new pain medicine making him a bit fuzzy, and that once he got them adjusted again, he would be ok for a while longer. He really kept us in the dark.

Thanks for posting the pictures of Ned when he looked healthy, even though he had the seeds of a terrible disease and was facing unpleasant treatments. I can see a bit of mischief on his face in most of the pictures, especially the one where he is surrounded by his harem!
mauryhillfarm
Vashon, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 24, 2008
6:04 AM

Post #5825052

Hi all. I haven't posted for some time but I'm mauryhillfarms DH. Holly hangs out on the PNW forum. She spotted Ned on there a year or so ago. I knew Ned when he still lived in Olympia. In fact it was about the time he was making the transition to Alaska. He worked for a small timber consulting company on Hood Canal(Union) and they would send him to Alaska to do contracted timber cruising. During the years I knew him we played a lot of pool and drank a lot of beer together. For two winters when he would come to Olympia from Alaska he would stay with me in the small cabin I was renting at the time. Many of you can remember roommates from your past I'm sure where things didn't work out to well and as I was reading the bad news one thing that struck me about Ned was in all the time we spent together I don't recall one disagreeable moment. Even in the long dreary winters in the cabin we shared there was never any of the acrimony that goes with roommates and close quarters. Of course we played a lot of cribbage and drank a lot of Buckhorn. Usually he would bring fish down from Alaska to share. And this introduced me to one of my favorite kinds of fresh fish, halibut. Being from the mid-west this was new to me. Like others I lost track of Ned after he moved to Alaska. About 5-6 years ago he contacted me while in Washington and we spent the day going to Olympia and visiting some of our old haunts together. I ended up on his e-mail list after that and we corresponded electronically since then. I am not a prolific writer so mostly I enjoyed Ned's e-mails, jokes and pictures and sent him an occasional note. I visited some with him on Coffee and forum. I will remember him as a genuinely warm, friendly man with a great sense of humor. He will be missed and is constantly in my thoughts.

Harley Miedema
Maury Hill Farm
Joyous
Himrod, NY
(Zone 6a)

November 24, 2008
11:29 AM

Post #5825256

Harley, thank you so much for more of Ned's life and friendship being shared here on this thread.

Joy
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 24, 2008
3:22 PM

Post #5825896

*BOARD NOTICE*

There are several of Ned’s friends who are TRYING to post in here, but evidently you have to be a paid member to access (or view?) this “Memory Garden” thread.

I told the locked out folks (from a couple other chat sites) that I'd post their "Ned thoughts" in here (under my name or LAKELLY's name) if they would forward them. I hope that’s not breaking any rules, but maybe this one time it would be acceptable under these circumstances.

Thanks...


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LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

November 24, 2008
5:00 PM

Post #5826244

Thanks HighMtn... I was going to put a notice over on Moose Creek and let anyone know who wanted to post that I'd post over here for them. I don't think DG would have an issue with that... but, if there is, speak now so I don't get in trouble! Hmmmm, or maybe in this instance we should "do first" and "ask permission" later... somehow I think Ned would engage in that theory! :-)
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 24, 2008
5:19 PM

Post #5826334

Hehe...

Good Morning LAKELLY2

“Proceed until apprehended!! 'Tis easier to ask for forgiveness then ask for permission”

That’s my motto at work...lolol... and I’ve been employed by the same place for 7 years... *wink*.
Joan
Belfield, ND
(Zone 4a)



November 24, 2008
6:01 PM

Post #5826508

We discussed this, and as long as the comments you are posting for others don't contain anything offensive, (can't imagine why they would), it is fine to post here for those that are unable to do so.
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

November 24, 2008
6:41 PM

Post #5826632

Thanks Joan! Appreciate the quick reply!!!!!

We wouldn't allow that to happen either. This is for Ned and his family.
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 25, 2008
1:16 AM

Post #5828026

Submission from “Bear" - Moose Creek Primitives
Sherry – Skaneateles, New York


The Nedster!

He made a grand appearance, charmed us with his quiet personality, made us laugh at his wonderful sense of humor, gave us hints and advice on gardening with herbs, showed us what it was like to live on an island, then in his usual manner, quietly slipped away.

Simply put, he will be missed!

Sherry “Bear”.


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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 25, 2008
2:03 AM

Post #5828186

Now thats the action we are looking for

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Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

November 25, 2008
6:30 AM

Post #5828748

Submission from "Doriwithani" - Moose Creek Primitives
Dori - Port Orchard, WA


I'm one of the gang that went to the Garden Show with Ned, and i had such a good time that day. He was so patient and mellow, just like he sounds online. Altho...the first time i met Ned online, he was grumpy. I know that doesn't sound like him, but he was. He had been hijacked or something onto the board i was hanging out in, and he did'nt really want any part of it. I watched him grow into himself as he ventured more and more into cyberspace, and i enjoyed the journey.

When NHGC went down the tubes, Ned said that he didn't want to join any more boards. That's when we were looking for a home. The more i find out how he spread himself, the more i wonder what he meant by more boards. The man was on NHGC (still) BC, MC, and Daves Garden. Ned, i'm going to miss you. Bless you and we will meet again.

Dori "doriwithani"
Procrastinator
Havelock
Canada

November 26, 2008
5:39 PM

Post #5833216

How wonderful to see that Ned had so many great friends and friendships he richly deserved and easily won.

I posted before but had to add this -

When I take Otis to the woods for his run we occasionally see deer. We have been seeing a lot more lately. They make me think of Ned. He posted pictures of the deer that were right outside his door. He supported me when I tried and succeeded in getting a deer baiting station taken down that was way too close to the public access route we take in the woods.

He always made sure to address people that had popped in to Parking Lot with something as simple as, "Hi Elaine and Otis". A simple thing but it meant the world to me.
I learned that the trees the beavers had taken down were actually food for the winter. A simple thing, yes, but every time I see those downed trees I think of Ned.

And most important of all - he taught the gang in Parking Lot how to do this - ^_^.
How fitting that a wonderful man with such a sense of humour would teach us how to make that silly smiley face. Every time I use that smiley face, I will think of Ned and smile. There are very few people in this world that you can't find anything bad to say about and Ned was one of them. I will always hold onto his memory with a smile and know that I was blessed to have had the chance to know him.

Otis and I miss you Ned. May we meet again in heaven. ^_^.

Love and Hugs
Elaine and Otis
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

November 26, 2008
5:46 PM

Post #5833232

Elaine and Otis - What a nice write-up! Thank you!!
Pamgarden
Central, VA
(Zone 7b)

November 26, 2008
6:03 PM

Post #5833276

I don't know how I was drawn here. I've never been to this forum before. I didn't know Ned, but after reading the messeges left here, he must have been one in a million. He sure has some wonderful friends. God bless you all.
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

November 27, 2008
8:41 AM

Post #5835135

mauryhillfarm
Vashon, WA
(Zone 8b)
Tue, November 25, 2008
11:00 PM
Ernie
I have been reading some of the thread here from time to time and Holly just showed me this message tonight. I guess I have a number of memories about Ned that I could share sometime. I have very few pictures. I have one that he sent me when he first started working in Alaska. It shows him in a small tug that was used to move logs around in a raft as they were assembling them in the water. He got drive it one time and someone snapped it for him. If you have ever seen one of these craft they are very unique. Instead of a tiller at the back of the boat they have what looks like a steering wheel. The wheel turns a full 360 degrees so these things are highly maneuverable. I guess the reason I am going on about this picture, besides it being one of the few I have, is that when I was assembling a montage of pictures of my family I included it among those of my brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces, and my wife and son. He was and will always be a part of my family.,I will try to get it scanned and send it along to you.

Just another parting story. Ned and I loved to play cribbage but neither of us had a cribbage board. So we filled up a "write in the rain" notebook with marks for our cribbage games. Our routine in those days was to get up in the morning and do a few errands and then get back to the cabin about noon, get a big fire going in the wood stove, crack open some Buckhorns and start playing cribbage.

Harley

This message was edited Nov 27, 2008 12:45 AM
twiggybuds
Moss Point, MS
(Zone 8b)

November 27, 2008
2:47 PM

Post #5835621

Ned I never heard you say "Why me?" but I will say "Why you?". Your courage, humor, wit and wisdom made you special. You were a good man and a class act all the way to the end. You are missed. I'm sipping my Folgers and hoping you are free at last to have some too.
dmcdevitt
Schroon Lake, NY
(Zone 4a)

November 27, 2008
3:53 PM

Post #5835807

Yep I raise my Folgers to Ned every morning!
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

December 2, 2008
5:45 PM

Post #5851202

EVERY MORNING I still ck my local temps to compare them to Ned’s. Part of our cherished AM ritual was to discuss the weather with all the cyber locals in our circle...lol Also... when I go to post something with high graphics (or a lot of photos) I still find myself hesitating because it ground Ned’s “dial-up” to a snail’s crawl...lol He was so happy when he sped things up a little with his system.

What a great guy!!...man... I sure miss him! He was a part of SO MANY people’s daily lives...it’s just amazing!


This message was edited Dec 2, 2008 10:06 AM
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

December 2, 2008
11:06 PM

Post #5852132

Mauryhill farm Yep have seen the unstealth craft you mention. Some even had outboard motors believe it or not. They were designed to crash and ram lol to operate one all you need is basic bumper car skills and your good to go. Somehow I can see Ned piloting one of those laughing and whooping. They are called log broncs.

Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

December 19, 2008
3:13 PM

Post #5907988

Ned,

It's below freezing out and I don't KNOW how cold it is in Thorne Bay! I miss your daily AM( front porch) weather reports! Buddy... I can't believe how MUCH I think about you. How much your interactions on our morning chat board are missed!

You were our voice of reason...our research expert... and the tiny stick that occasionally loved to "tongue in cheek" stir the political pot with a zinger of a post...lol

*sigh*...
balvenie
Marysville, WA
(Zone 7a)

December 19, 2008
6:01 PM

Post #5908568

Ned, I never had the opportunity to meet you. The few times we did correspond showed me how much I had missed. The world was a better place, thanks to you. All life is temporary and the only thing that counts is what we leave behind. You have left a legacy that will be hard for anyone to match. Godspeed Ned, this journey will be the best.
katie59
Woodinville, WA
(Zone 8b)

December 21, 2008
11:54 PM

Post #5916577

Ned, I only knew you briefly online, but I could tell what a big heart and spirit you had. I'm happy to have known you and am grieving for my loss. Godspeed with the love of all these people to lift you up.
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

December 25, 2008
4:01 PM

Post #5927197

May God bless our country this Christmas
Every home...
Every heart...
Especially yours Ned... ~~~*

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eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

December 25, 2008
5:36 PM

Post #5927404

Ned You have left me haunted my friend I will never know what you were trying to tell me the night before. All I could get was Ernie I really really before the phone crashed. Knowing what a struggle the phone was for you I decided to wait till morning and email you to find out what you meant.Sad for me morning for you was delayed.

I choose to think you were trying to say I really really had a good time this summer and next summer we will go back up the mountian and get up to Artist Point and on the way down go up Canyon Creek and get some pictures there to.Next summer I am going up there send me a sign angel wings in the snow?LOL They would go well with my Trident.

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dmcdevitt
Schroon Lake, NY
(Zone 4a)

December 25, 2008
11:52 PM

Post #5927957

Ernie-I think you've got it exactly right.
Sashagirl
Davenport, IA
(Zone 5a)

December 26, 2008
4:07 AM

Post #5928474

Ned my friend,

It's evident we can't get you out of our minds. I hope you are gorging on the delicasies that surround you.
OH! And I hope "they" have your beloved Folgers on hand. *wink*

Sasha
Procrastinator
Havelock
Canada

December 30, 2008
1:55 AM

Post #5941759

Ned - Since you passed away I have profoundly felt your loss. So many things make me think of you. I hope that there is some way for you to know just how much of an impact you had on so many of our lives. I know that in time things will get easier for me (us) but your memory and friendship is something that I will always treasure.

The holidays always emphasize family and friends and perhaps that is why you are constantly on my mind. Or perhaps it is just that you were such an incredible fella that makes it so much harder to get past the loss I feel.

Put simply - I miss you Ned.

Love and Hugs

Your friends
Elaine and Otis
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

March 8, 2009
7:58 PM

Post #6238567

Happy Birthday Ned (aka- Nedster, Nedward...and Mintman!)

This morning... as I poured up a VERY STRONG cup of "chewable" Folgers (just they way you like it)... I toasted the sky to you!

I think of you EVERY DAY when I ck the local temps or listen to the weather...and will never cease to think of you when I see or smell MINT.

((((((((((((((((((((((((heavenly hugs))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Felicia
.
.
.

This message was edited Mar 8, 2009 12:59 PM
MollyMc
Archer/Bronson, FL
(Zone 8b)

March 8, 2009
8:09 PM

Post #6238689

Dearest Ned, Happy Birthday!!!!!!

I am very happy that DG does not remove birthdays for our departed dear friends. We can celebrate the day God gave you to us, every year, renewing our fondest memories of you.

((((Ned))))

Molly
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

March 8, 2009
8:10 PM

Post #6238692

Neddie well yesterday I could see the mountian and it looked so close it seemed It was almost in the backyard I thought of you and how we enjoyed the bs on my deck, I am so glad you got to see so many of the guys especially Rod.As for the ones who couldnt connect it's their loss.

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IO1
Waaaay Down South, GA

March 8, 2009
9:10 PM

Post #6238949

Molly, you put it so perfectly. I love the way DG has chosen to honor our beloved friends who are no longer with us in person but are still here in spirit by the things they've taught me and through the plants they've shared. :)

Happy birthday Ned. I'm sitting here drinking a cuppa Folger's in your memory. You touched my life in ways you can never know. Or maybe you do ...
~Susan

ves522

ves522
Jim Falls, WI
(Zone 4a)

March 8, 2009
9:13 PM

Post #6238969

Happy Birthday Ned! Waiting for the mint to come up you sent me!
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

March 9, 2009
11:10 AM

Post #6241339

A young couple in Thorne Bay found some of us in email. They inherited Ned's place up there. They had a very nice memorial for him yesterday. How sweet!!!

Ned touched many lives in a positive manner.
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

March 9, 2009
2:10 PM

Post #6241907

Ned was a pleaser in life I am not surprised he left his home to a young couple up there.It will help them get a good start in an expensive place to live.

How nice they recognized him. I bet though they would rather see that sly grin and twinkeling eyes and live in there old place where ever that was. Wonder if they took his cat to or if Janna did something with her.
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

March 10, 2009
12:50 AM

Post #6244721

Ernie - I'm not sure, but I'll ask.
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

March 10, 2009
1:00 AM

Post #6244787

I've been wondering about that too! Thanks for checking LAKelly!
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

March 10, 2009
11:47 PM

Post #6249099

Okie dokie... I'm a checkin... I almost forgot to do so then logged on here and this thread reminded me.
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

March 11, 2009
12:48 AM

Post #6249377

Highmtn and eweed - I asked the lady who got Ned's house what happened to his cats and here is what she says:


Hi there, His cats still live here,, and were taking care of them and all the other neighbors
cats! They sun their selfs on my car,,just like they did Ned,s truck
He has Penquin and Bigfoot. They are cool cats! Connie

eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

March 11, 2009
1:25 AM

Post #6249623

As it should be thanks and thanks to them for taking care of his cat or cats Ernie.

Neddie I thought of you again today. A North Easter is blowing and as I came down the freeway I had a panormic view of the mountian. The twin sisters were stunning in their fresh coat of snow.The wind fresh from the fraiser canyon cleared the ait of all the smoke and made the mountian look even closer than it really is.
defoecat
Pleasureville, KY
(Zone 6a)

March 11, 2009
1:26 AM

Post #6249627

Isn't it just like Ned to keep on giving long after he departed this earth. I am just amazed that a man so humble and lived so simply,had such a huge huge heart, he shared in life, and is still sharing after death.

Happy Birthday Ned.
Highmtn
Cliff Dweller, WA
(Zone 8b)

July 22, 2009
11:30 AM

Post #6849972

LAKelly,
Thanks for the update on Ned's cats. He did love them so! I'm so happy they got to continue on living at Ned's place.

I am thrilled to announce my chocolate mint from Ned's garden is going gang busters! It was shared with me by a member from a different garden club (Dori), and it went from being a little clump in my hand to filling out a 14" tub in nothing flat!

Ned... I'm going to try some of the mint tea you were always talking about. A morning toast will go "right to ya!". Miss ya buddy!
LAKelley2
Titusville, FL
(Zone 9b)

March 8, 2010
11:49 AM

Post #7613394

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NED!!!!!!!!!!!
eweed
Everson, WA
(Zone 8a)

March 8, 2010
6:44 PM

Post #7614488

This past couple of weeks the mountian has been very visable.

Naturally Ned I thought of you going hell bent for leather down North Face. No surprise to me I would remember you going full speed.

I lost all my pictures including those from our trip up the mountian. I also lost all of yours.I can get some of them back from this thread I think.

Well no matter pictures or not I will remenber you anyway.

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