What is a tussie-mussie?
A tussie-mussie is a nosegay of flowers and herbs chosen for the message they will convey. They are then bound together in a doily. A nosegay is defined as a small bunch of flowers. The tussie-mussie is sometimes called a posy because it delivers a message to the recipient, and--among other things--a posy means "a brief sentiment." The tussie-mussie does, in fact, deliver one's sentiment in brief to the recipient. The sentiment is entirely up to the maker of the tussie-mussie; create a tussie-mussie with lavender, and it will imply devotion and happiness. Perhaps you want to say 'I love you' with the tussie-mussie. Use roses, myrtle or both, and you've done just that. Review the plant list in this article, or research the meanings of plants further on your own before making a tussie-mussie. And remember to add a card which clearly defines the meanings of each plant included in the tussie-mussie so your sentiments will not be misinterpreted.
If you do not have the plants needed to create a tussie-mussie, your local florist or supermarket may have cut flowers available for purchase. Your backyard is also a good source for plants. Creating a tussie-mussie will take about an hour of pure enjoyment. So gather the kids round the table, and teach them about floriography, or the language of flowers.
Make the tussie-mussie 
- Filler plants (see note below)
- A large flower for the tussie-mussie heart
- Scissors or small pruners
- Hole punch
- Paper doily
- Curling ribbon or raffia
- Floral tape
- Index card
- Colored pencils
- A glass of water
Note: Suggested filler plants include baby's breath, pansies, violets and fragrant herbs.
I made my tussie-mussie from silk flowers since I needed curtain ties in my bedroom, and Sue Williams mentioned using tussie-mussies as tiebacks in her article, Tussie-mussies: "Talking Bouquets". 
I used a pink rose for the centerpiece, baby's breath as filler and large rose leaves and ivy to surround the rose.
Use the language of flowers list below to gather plants for the tussie-mussie. Cut the plants in four to six inch lengths. Strip the bottom leaves, and rest the plants in a glass of water while you work. Hold the center of the flower in one hand, and surround it with a suitable layer of filler plants. Secure all stems with floral tape. Arrange large leaves such as ivy around the outer edge of the tussie-mussie center to border it. Secure this, too, with floral tape. Cut a hole in the middle of the doily by marking an X there. Insert the trunk of the tussie-mussie plants into the precut doily and secure the base of it with floral tape. Tie curling ribbon or raffia onto the tussie-mussie's trunk at the base of the doily. Fold an index card in half, and punch a hole at the top left corner of it. Use colored pencils to write a brief sentiment on the index card, and attach it to the tussie-mussie.
Your tussie-mussie is now complete.
Victorian Language of Flowers
Unchanging friendship. Live for me
Sourness of temper
Think of me
|Cedar Leaf||I live for thee|
|Eglantine (Sweetbrier)||Poetry. I wound to heal |
|Forget-me-not||True love. Forget me not |
|Hibiscus ||Delicate beauty|
|Hydrangea||A boaster. Heartlessness|
|Ivy ||Fidelity. Marriage |
|Jasmine ||Amiability |
|Locust Tree||Elegance |
|Marigold and Cypress||Despair|
|Oats ||The witching soul of music. |
|Orange Blossoms||Your purity equals your loveliness|
|Sweet Pea ||Departure |
|Rose ||Love |
|Rose, full-blown and placed over two buds ||Secrecy|
|Sweet William ||Gallantry |
|Scotch Thistle ||Retaliation|
|Variegated Tulip ||Beautiful eyes|
|Valerian||An accommodating disposition|
|Water Lily||Purity of heart |
|Witch Hazel||A spell|
|Yew ||Sorrow |
|Zinnia||Thoughts of absent friends|
Follow the language of flowers link below for a complete list of the meanings of plants in the Victorian era.
Rose, heliotrope and ivy could say, "I love you. I am devoted to you. Will you marry me?"
Sweet william, witch hazel and quince would speak to the heart of a secret love by saying, "Your gallantry has bewitched me. I am tempted by you."
Suggested uses for tussie-mussies
Christmas ornaments using dried flowers
Valentine's or Mother's Day gifts
In the Victorian era, suitors gave their intended lady a tussie-mussie. If she embraced it to her heart, the suitor knew his message was received with a glad heart. Tussie-mussies were often carried to mask offensive odors and to ward off sickness
 "Tussie-Mussies" -Bouquets with Meaning, a University of North Carolina article
 Tussie-mussies: "Talking Bouquets" by Susan Williams
 The Language of Flowers
Extensive language of flowers lists
The Language of Flowers compiled by Nugent Robinson. P. F. Collier, 1882
Katherine's language of flowers list. This is an excellent source with dates of plant meanings added.
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All photographs in this article are from my craft room